Wednesday, July 30, 2008

The most valueable experience..

Assalamualaikum….
Hmmm..since ive got a req. frm my preggy fren to share my experience delivering my loved baby.here u go;)so..where should I start from..emmmm (thinking)…ok..as a mukaddimah..i am married on June 2006..at that time my hubby was working at Perlis.so consider as weekend husband n wife lah. “namun jarak bukan penghalang cintaku dan dia”.cewah;p approximately in Feb 07..confirmed by the doctor that I am pregnant for 4 weeks..ALHAMDULILLAH.GOD had answer me.i was very very excited and eager to tell my hubby rite after out from the clinic..tp mcm tetiba xtau nak buatpe..am thinking so many things to do..think of how am I gonna surprise my hubby..but at last I just tell him tru YM…tah pape tah….of course my hubby excited too..tp besela..laki kan..control macho sketla..ahaksss..so…

Welcome to the chapter 2 for the marriage life..tu baru disahkan mengandung..blom consider as “IBU” lagi..not a mother yet..ALHAMDULILLAH bcoz during my pregnancy..i didn’t experience bad nausea..just pening2 lalat gitu..however..my hormone changed..perangai pn changed jgk ler…dari xsuka mkn mee sup tetiba mengidam mee sup plak…the most I hate is..bau my hubby after he came back from work (dia naik moto..so bau asap:D)..luckily my hubby sabar je melayan kerenah bini dia nih…thanks to my hubby coz olwiz by my side when needed..thanks coz slalu picit2kan pinggang..its normal for pregnant women to experience back ache..n kalu nak di thanks kan..byk sgt bende yg aku perlu berterima kasih to my beloved hubby..he sacrificed a lot for me... I LOVE U so much abg;)..
So to cut it short (kalu x berjela plak pjgnya blog nih nak cite experience during 9 mths pregnant)on week 39 if am not mistaken, I start to feel that I gonna deliver my baby so soon..its just the instinct but people say naluri ibu ni selalunya kuat and tepat.but I just be calm and try to relax myself..
24th Nov 2007
it was my hubby’s besday..hari tu hari Sabtu..sempat lagi plan surprise for my hubby..when my hubby go to pasar mlm to beli makanan, i drive alone (malam plak tuh) just to buy a cake. Kebetulan that weekend my parents go to Langkawi..so just leave 2 of us..romantik gitu;)deep in my heart, i hope that i will deliver my baby that day..so that sama la besday ngn ayah dia..;)but till the end no sign  menunjukkan aku akn bersalin so soon.xpela..Allah lebih mengetahui yg terbaik buat hambaNya..
25 Nov 2007
The next day (Sunday), we plan to go to Giant for shopping bcoz there's a few things we have yet to buy for the baby.while wearing my tudung, I feel discomfortable..rasa basah je..but I just ignore that feeling..but 5 minutes later, I feel like basah giler..ouh ouh..my waterbag dh pecah but slowly…yes confirm it’s a sign utk aku melahirkan. I told my hubby that i think its time..nak bersalin dah.my hubby was panic but he try to control himself..ececeh:D..i straight away call my mom @ langkawi told her that I am going to the hospital..sementara tu my hubby get ready wth my bag+baby’s bag that I hv packed earlier. **Pesanan utk bakal ibu yg akn melahirkan..pack brg2 yg nak dibawa ke hospital awal2..so that if emergency tetiba nak terberanak brg sume dh ready bcoz when we are panic,we cannot think properly..so nnti ade je bende x bawa. So once everything ready, kami pun bertolak utk ke hospital..my hubby drive the car but he not focusing on our destination..nak pegi HUKM tp lead to jln nak g opis dia kat PWTC..ih ih ih..klako plak mase tu;p we reach @ HUKM at 1130am. I was examine by the doctor to check my “jalan” dah buka bape cm and so sad it was just 1 cm at that time..then they monitor my baby’s heart beep for 20 minutes to make sure my baby is ok..sbb my waterbag dh pecah so they worried if my baby lemas inside.then after done all the procedures, ive been brought to the ward and admitted ( I think around 1230pm). My hubby was accompanied me all the time..kitorang mcm mati kutu la..xtau nak buatpe kat ward tu..dhla parents xde kat sini..jauh nun di langkawi..my contraction pn xde lagi @ that time.so tu yg rasa mcm xde ape sgt.xtakut la konon2..my hubby has told me to take a bath..nnti senang but I feel not comfortable to mandi bcoz the waterbag dh pecah and the air keep flowing.so mandi pn xde mknanya.i just keep walking utk ilangkan boring and nervouse yg ade sket2 tu.org pn kata kalu byk jln senang nak bersalin.sempat lagi aku makan makanan yg hospital bagi..supaya ade tenaga nak push nnti...then @ 3.30pm, the doctor come to my ward and do the check up..this time I cannot move lagi dah sbb doctor dh pasang ‘tali pinggang’ @ my big belly to monitor baby pnye jantung..the doctor hv to do that bcoz my waterbag dh pecah about 5 hours,baby’s heartbeat kena monitored all the time to make sure the baby is ok and strong.if the baby going weaker, kena bedah la jwbnya utk keluorkan baby.ALHAMDULILLAH my baby still ok..@ 4pm my hubby g balik umah kejap.since I hv nothing to do..i just sleep..@ 5pm, nurse dtg utk check up lagi..dia tanya baby gerak ckp 10 klai ke x (since 9 mths pregnant, instructed by the doctor tht I hv to monitor baby’s movement.mesti lebih 10 kali sehari.if not something wrong la tu).however that day I didn’t monitor my baby’s movement coz i thought dah nak bersalin so xyah la monitor lagi..so ape lagi kena bebel la dgn nurse tu..tensen gk..rs nak lempang nurse tu..that time the contraction dh mula rasa..but rarely.15 mins once.consider xkuat lagi..about 630pm, my hubby sampai. This time I feel the contraction more harder.Kekerapan pn increase..2 mins once..aku mmg dh xbole nak dok diam dah..resah je sbb sakit contraction. 9.30pm doctor check jln lagi..dh buka 3cm..trus kena tolak masuk labor room.i cannot walk anymore @ that time..dlm labor room my hubby olwiz by my side.he try to make me calm but when the contraction attack I cannot calm anymore.mase tu baru la pk mcm ni susahnya mak kita nak melahirkan kita ke dunia ni..sbb tu syurga di bawah telapak kaki ibu..doctor give me an injection to reduce the pain tp xjalan pun..all the doctor yg dtg check up just can say..sabarla..biasala baby sulung mmg lambat sket..ape tah lagi doctor tu merepek aku xdgr dah..dok melayan sakit contraction..
26 Nov 2007
i req.for epidural but rejected by the doctor..@1.30am, doctor check jln lagi..baru buka 4cm..ya Allah..aku berdoa agar dikuatkan semangat utk bertahan.aku rasa mcm xde harapan utk aku bersalin normal..setelah 7 jam aku menahan sakit contraction, jln baru buka 4cm..i feel like give up utk bertahan and req. for caesarean. My hubby pujuk supaya still bertahan..and stlh mendengar segala pujukan dan nasihat dia ntah camne aku bole terlelap..aku rasa mcm dh 3 jam tido tp rupenye baru 15 minit..aku terjaga sbb contraction yg kuat sgt..that time i think like times not running..kesakitan yg aku alami terlalu kuat sehinggakan xde air mata nak nangis..semua bende dlm labor room tu berpusing2 pd pandangan aku..i know my hubby very worried melihatkan keadaan aku..tp dia control hensem la..xnak tunjuk;p doctor tambah dos utk mempercepatkan baby turun ke pintu..so meaning to say the contraction pun semakin hebat la..my BP increase over the borderline..dekat 200 kot..dan disebabkan kesakitan yg amat sgt aku sampai termuntah2..abis sume isi perut.aku demam..energy mmg zero dah..@ last jam 5.30 am baru doctor decide bagi epidural bcoz of my condition..takut effect kat baby.. Dah dpt epidural..rasa kelegaan yg amat sgt.letih dan mengantuk gile..so bila keadaan aku dh ok sket, my hubby g balik umah jap mandi..sian dia xtido semalaman temankan aku:D dia dtg blik dlm kul 7.30am..mase tu doctor check lagi dh buka 7cm. aku still rasa contraction tp xseteruk b4 the epidural.aku dgr dh 7cm buka rasa confident la bole bersalin normal..@8.30 doctor dtg lagi check tp xde perubahan.still 7cm.doctor can’t wait anymore..air ketuban dh pecah more than 24 hours so the risc is infection might attack the baby..doctor suggest to do the caesarian. Me and hubby was like blur n nothing to say..maklumla xde pengalaman..furthermore the doctor aspect my baby was big so they don’t want to take a risc..takut nnti bahu baby sangkut sbb bukaan just 7cm.finally we just agree to the doctor..dan aku pun dibedah tepat jam 10.24am..kalu ikutkan hati mmg frustrated yg amat sgt after gone through all the hassle..at last kena bedah..however I am so grateful bcoz my baby safely delivered. Syukur Alhamdulillah…segala nikmat dariNya..
Muhammad Harraz Aqeel Bin Abbashah selamat lahir ke dunia di HUKM pada 26 Nov 2007 jam 10.24am dgn berat 2.89kg;)maka secara rasminya aku telah menjadi IBU and my hubby telah menjadi AYAH kepada buah cinta kami = AQEEL..
even though my experience quite terrible, tapi aku still rasa pengalaman bersalin ni amat berharga..setelah mendengar tangisan pertama my baby, semua kesakitan dan kesusahan yg ditempuh sepanjang perjuangan melahirkan tu hilang camtu je..betapa hebatnya kuasa Tuhan..mengurniakan naluri keibuan yg sgt tebal kpd wanita yg melahirkan...and now, i feel like i want to be pregnant again and i cant wait that moment when the doctor said.."tahniah Puan..puan mengandung 4 minggu"....;)hehehe..
kepada bakal ibu yg akan melahirkan..jgnla panic plak when reading my experience..setiap org berbeza pengalaman bersalinnya..ade yg mudah ade yg susah..semuanya Takdir Tuhan..redha dgn setiap yg ditentukanNya..bersyukur segala nikmat kesenangan dan kesusahan yg diberiNya..
So tu je la yg dpt aku share experience aku delivering my baby..wait for my next entry..my experience being a mother plak;)



Friday, July 25, 2008

lunch @ chilis BSC


Today lunch @ chilis-BSC..wth my colleague Atie n Ct + Mr Ng (our supplier). Actually Ng was celebrated Atie (farewell ekcelli) for leaving the company. Me n CT just step a foot la org ckp;p The food was good but today is not our luck bcoz we hv to wait about half an hour..Friday lunch time = peak hour. So I just order Country Fried Chicken + milo..actually it was not as what I want to..i was thinking to order grilled chicken but I wrongly mention the menu title…so that’s what I get..excatly like KFC..xsedap..the worst thing is the chicken was a breast part..which I hate so much..letih la nak kunyah..isi sesaja..hehehe:D however the mashed potato is ok..hmmm the best thing eating @ chilis = can refill the drinks unlimited. Kembong la jgk perut minum air..ok enough on food part.


Next..on the way back..we stop @ body shop outlet..its just the rite time which I plan to buy a new perfume since my last drop of perfume was past 2 months I guess..and my choice is the new arrival = AQUA LILY..the smell is soooo nice..and as per expectation, the price definitely increase..for 30mL perfume oil = RM69 which previously only RM50++.the promotion is buy 3 items get 10% discount. So I combine the perfume wth CT’s body scrub n eye shadow, becomes 3 items..so we are entitle for the 10% discount..and my perfume only cost RM62 nett. Know what..the funny thing was, we are not provided wth the plastic bag..we have to pay for the paper bag as their campaign was “safe green earth + charity”…and its cost us 50cent…the 50 cent will be donated to the charity organization. Its good to do the campaign but its look like we are forcing to do so. If you don’t want to pay for the paper bag, then you have to carry all the things by yourself.. if 3 items still ok..just imagine more than 5 items…how?????

So..thats all folks..till finger meet keyboard (mcm pepatah till pen meet paper..tp ni IT sket la;p)..dadaaa..;)

Ceriakan harimu dgn senyuman…

Thursday, July 24, 2008

something new...


Assalamualaikum..
hmm..this is my first entry..SOMETHING NEW for me..how can i get involve in this 'thing'???i duno how and i think this is a fate..is it??i duno..all i know is i just bump into it when clicking my fren's blog site (sape lagi..mc syu ler) and suddenly required me to register.. i thought it just a normal registration..(am thinking maybe its new security that my fren done to her blog..)and suddenly i am a new blogger now..so this is the result..
**kena asah balik la skill karang mengarang cite dongeng aku nih**



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